tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6482086120454663232.post9213774614854255132..comments2023-09-25T11:03:17.468-05:00Comments on The Modern Gal: Life lessonsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6482086120454663232.post-30843564904684257532009-06-19T19:19:39.378-05:002009-06-19T19:19:39.378-05:00Everything you're feeling is perfectly natural...Everything you're feeling is perfectly natural. I know exactly what you mean about not wanting people to feel sorry for you. I can't stand to be pitied either, but I do know that when I vent those feelings via my blog, the Internet throws a lot of support at me and I feel better.<br /><br />I know you'll find a guy who is as amazing as you are. You're very brave for continuing to put yourself out there, and one day you'll be rewarded.<br /><br />If I were still in Knoxville, I'd drive over and give you a big hug. But you'll have to settle for a virtual hug, so here it is. *HUG!*Courtneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05940936362201799176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6482086120454663232.post-70857373708566512052009-06-19T11:27:35.544-05:002009-06-19T11:27:35.544-05:00I know that "crap coming at you no matter whi...I know that "crap coming at you no matter which way you look" feeling and its pretty sucky. Can friends help with the move? Maybe you could order something online and have it shipped directly to Modern Dad? That European vacation sounds like just what you need. STAT!Vanessahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14149777435132497067noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6482086120454663232.post-19117142129732696592009-06-18T23:02:17.036-05:002009-06-18T23:02:17.036-05:00:)
you know how to articulate it so awesomely. cu...:)<br /><br />you know how to articulate it so awesomely. cuz messes = awesomemesses that don't last so long.<br /><br />go forth and listen to some 80s music. 80s music makes everything better.<br /><br />...and tell us about the move!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6482086120454663232.post-58624812016499464192009-06-18T21:42:58.248-05:002009-06-18T21:42:58.248-05:00that's right, scoop yourself up and get back o...that's right, scoop yourself up and get back on the horse. <br /><br />I once tried to walk from my pedicure and make it all the way through the airport with my flimsy flip flops. I made it past security but not to the gate! My friend did though.Allison M.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04348778557772621239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6482086120454663232.post-52064761752020427042009-06-18T17:03:01.920-05:002009-06-18T17:03:01.920-05:00You might feel like a complete mess, but you'r...You might feel like a complete mess, but you're a very wise mess. You're going to be in SUCH better shape two and ten years from now *because* you navigated your way through the mess. Trust me. The life where everything happens without frustration and hardship might be very attractive in the moment, but it's not nearly so rich and satisfying down the road. <br /><br />For the time being, it's so good and important that you're letting your community into your mind and heart right now, even if it feels messy. You're going to be just fine. More than fine.Kristin T. (@kt_writes)https://www.blogger.com/profile/14716636710128806747noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6482086120454663232.post-20840819529863537342009-06-18T16:40:40.880-05:002009-06-18T16:40:40.880-05:00Well said, MG. I've recently realized that I ...Well said, MG. I've recently realized that I don't live at home any more, there's no one here to do it but me (it being anything mundane or not) and complaining about it is not going to make anyone do it for me. No matter how much it sucks or what other things I would rather do, I just have to do it. So, its sort of along the lines of what you are thinking, sort of. It obviously took me a long time to learn this since I haven't lived at home for many years! Keep your chin up...Sonic always helps!Kristenhttp://benandkristenbowman.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6482086120454663232.post-60425797688956603622009-06-18T15:10:00.373-05:002009-06-18T15:10:00.373-05:00Jigsha, you are so much more eloquent than I when ...Jigsha, you are so much more eloquent than I when it comes to that. It really is like our conversation the other night: it's that optimism and faith that is so important.<br /><br />I'm not sure that advice is sad though. It sucks a bit, but when the good things happen it's easier to be even happier because you can take ownership of what's happened. YOU helped make it happen. It wasn't given to you.<br /><br />And those ears, Rieslings and road trips definitely help :)The Modern Galhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08663558561522180816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6482086120454663232.post-124937790941954052009-06-18T14:55:16.071-05:002009-06-18T14:55:16.071-05:00I came to a realization a month or two ago that I ...I came to a realization a month or two ago that I was not owed anything. I had never signed a contract with God or such guaranteeing me the good things in life.<br /><br />Despite that sad notion, I am still optimistic and faithful for good things to come. It just means I have to work harder to achieve them; the onus is on me to attain the happiness.<br /><br />That's kind of sad advice, but also quite practical I believe. It's helped me focus somewhat.<br /><br />Hang in there, 'gal. This too, shall pass and you will become even stronger.<br /><br />And you know that help, an ear, a glass of old Riesling, an impromptu road trip and so forth are always close by.Jigshahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00066632590550512505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6482086120454663232.post-90702233235464448792009-06-18T14:46:16.335-05:002009-06-18T14:46:16.335-05:00CHOCOLATE CREAM PIE SHAKE? What is this madness th...CHOCOLATE CREAM PIE SHAKE? What is this madness that you speak of, and when can I come visit you, meet you, and we can get this mysteriously delicious-sounding shake together?<br /><br />Hang in there, none of us has it all together. And we're here for you to lean on when you need it :)Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10240910817844765798noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6482086120454663232.post-18066883868058227932009-06-18T13:44:35.795-05:002009-06-18T13:44:35.795-05:00Ha ha, that is in fact true, Mackey. It's the ...Ha ha, that is in fact true, Mackey. It's the answer to all life's problems.The Modern Galhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08663558561522180816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6482086120454663232.post-54014197837454735532009-06-18T13:41:41.907-05:002009-06-18T13:41:41.907-05:00Don't Stop Believing, right? (see post 2 spots...Don't Stop Believing, right? (see post 2 spots below)Mackeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11219778438502015394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6482086120454663232.post-43772999642232785872009-06-18T13:39:59.288-05:002009-06-18T13:39:59.288-05:00that is so true about expecting something good to ...that is so true about expecting something good to happen just bc all the bad does. i need to remember that more. and i'll go with you to get that shake - but i'd have a strawberry limeaid :)Angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09707770153324985504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6482086120454663232.post-31852996824263507902009-06-18T12:30:32.138-05:002009-06-18T12:30:32.138-05:00I feel like I am a mess at every turn I take. In f...I feel like I am a mess at every turn I take. In fact, I am beginning counseling to help me sort through some things. That is my little secret. <br /><br />You are not a mess, and you DO hold it together well, despite your ups and downs. And remember that everyone has ups and downs. <br /><br />I tend to internalize when things get hairy for me, which is why, I suppose, I have not been out and about lately. I really need to be better about being a better friend. I would love to spend more time with you. <br /><br />I am leaving to drive to Michigan hopefully in about an hour but I am back Sunday evening and can help you move whenever you need that help too. <br /><br />Hang in there, chin up. Remember when you feel low that you are valued, amazing, loved.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com